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We keep bumping into each other and having one night stands, should we keep it this way or should I ask him to meet up and talk?

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Question - (11 September 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,

So when I was 20 I had a one night stand with a guy I met at my flight actually,he was sitting next to me we spoke we had a stop at a place for 5 hours and we had sex..and that was it..

When I turned 22 my girlfriends took me to cabo and I meet this guy at the resort,I was shocked rather surprised to see him I invited him to my party and we ended having sex again!I had to leave from cabo so I never really got to speak to him again..

At 23 I met him at a friends wedding,he was part of the band and no guesses we hooked up..but what was worse was about 2 weeks ago we were throwing a hen party for my bestie at vegas we called in for 2 strippers and he was one of them..and he acted like he dint know me throughout his act,and later he told me he had to do that cuz he thought I would be embarassed to acknowledge him in front of my friends but when he was stripping and giving a lap dance to my friend it was driving me mad,like I dint enjoy it one bit,I turned my face a couple of time,I just wanted to pull him away from everyone!!I don't know what I want from him,but I know I want to meet him up and talk!do you think I should?or should I keep it to this one night stand thing?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (11 September 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntP.S. Is it reasonable to believe that if you have ONSs with him on consecutive nights, you'll think that you and he have a "long term relationship" going on?????

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (11 September 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntThis guy "sounds" like a warm and fuzzy "keeper" to me....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (11 September 2012):

Honeypie agony auntOh I think I would leave that one alone. He's a (I beg pardon) a man-whore.

I bet he will have sex with just about anyone with a pulse.

And I agree with SVC - please please use protection with this guy.

Do you really want to date a male stripper?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 September 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso you keep running into this guy...all over the world but not at home... weird... very weird...

personally my take on it is that he hooks up with anyone and everyone he can.. and if you were jealous of him with friends and he's traveling all the time hooking up with others you will be insane.

best advice... it was a lovely time, if you are single and run into him again go for it (make him wear a condom hon) and other than that relegate him to a lovely memory.

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