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We just split and he's now on the search for new women! Is he doing this to make me feel bad and to bring me down?

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Question - (21 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi everyone,

Okay so I think I am finally over the whole "let me sort out my life and well get back together" line. Thats all it was, a line. now I have a questions for everyone out there, why do people use this line? Also, I have started going out and doing my own thing, not crying and pretending I don't care. He in return has been searching for women left and right online, on myspace, on facebook, as young as 18 (he is 26). why is he doing this? could it be to make me feel bad, to bring me back down? Or is this really him not giving two cents about me. It has only been 3 or 4 days, we live together so i take the bedroom he takes the couch or sleeps at a friends... I'm a little bit confused and cannot decide if its to hurt me more or if this is how he really always was...

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A male reader, AdamPayseno United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2007):

AdamPayseno agony aunt3 days and he is already on the Prowl? Issues there I think.

Because you acted like you don't care, perhaps he got a little offended by that and moved on? Or he could be trying to spear you, because he thinks you don't care.

My advice to you is ask your self what you want to do..

I don't think the problem here is one he has the answer to.

You need to decide how hard your willing to try.

Good luck.

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