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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:This boy and I ended badly 2 years ago, and didnt speak for about a year. But about a year ago we started texting and talking, and got better friends. I never stopped liking him.He looks at me all the time at school, but says mean things about me? I really like him, and now that we've grown up I think a relationship would work between us.But we dont even talk now. Apparently he talks about me alot to his friends, but he wont even talk to me himself? I really like him, and I just dont know where to start. Also, his whole year dislike me because I dumped him (nearly three years ago!) which makes it difficult to go over and say hi.We just need to get talking and get friends, but HOW DO I GET THERE?!
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reader, LonelyHeartsAdvice  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 If he is saying mean things about you are you sure he is mature enough to be in a relationship with you? There is no point entering, or reentering a relationship if someone has bad feelings against you, people are more then capable of forgiving each other but trust me the never forget, do whatever your issues were before, and the reasons why you broke up are still going to be there. But if you are sure you can deal with this and attempt to overcome it, then just be friendly, ask him to hang out as friends, you are better off reestablishing the foundations of a friendship before anything else, and as it is his nose which seems to be out of joint then you have to let him come around in his own time, believe me there is no quick fix for friendships. But if you went out with him you know his likes and dislikes, ask him to the kind of movies he would like and recommend him songs to listen to that you know are his taste, use your knowledge of him to win him back as a friend. But when you have re-established your friendship then you should tell him how you feel about him and your intention of having a relationship again! I really hop it all goes well for you!
All the best,
Little Miss Valentine
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