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*arissalover1
writes:So all march break me and my boyfriend haven't talked... I think he might break up with me.... what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist +, writes (21 March 2011):
 That explains alot more, being so far away it can be difficult to see each other and now I see that it is not him who is just trying to avoid you. The time spent apart doesn't signal bad things right away although I think that it would be good for you to decide whether you want to stay with him and deal with the time apart until you are older and can meet with him or if you want to find someone closer to home.
Its sad to say, but I don't think that now is the time to have a bf that you never see and are always waiting on. Sometimes it may be better not to be together now and wait to see what will come in the future if you two are meant to be together or not.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 I still say, he's been busy, you've been out of town, don't worry just yet. See how it is when you get back. Not hearing from someone for a week is okay, especially at your age. Just let each other enjoy your breaks, and see if he's less interested in you AFTER break.
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reader, Larissalover1 +, writes (21 March 2011):
Larissalover1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question march break has been a week long. im goin back to school today but he has a drama festivle hes doing for this week. the only reason we really havent talked is because i've been away and i cant really go see him because my momma hates him and hes about a 4 hour walk out of town :(
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reader, The Realist +, writes (21 March 2011):
If you two haven't talked I think what you should do is realize that there is no reason to be with him and plan on ending it. There is no point having you in pain over him when you should be out living your life.
He doesn't sound interested in the relationship and in some ways it's better to know ahead of time that it is over rather than it being a suprise.
One thing that comes to mind for me though is that he is waiting till you break up with him so he can be seen by people that he is the hurt one.
I would get over him and make no effort to contact him until he does something about it unless you decide that you just want him out of your life.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (21 March 2011):
alright slow down: how long is march break? if it's been more than a week, I'd try to contact him. is he away? if he isn't traveling, why don't you go over to his house and see what he's up to; if he is away, have you tried calling him?
he might have just wanted to relax, and might just be careless right now. don't jump to conclusions yet.
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