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writes:I know this guy who said that he wanted to be friends with benefits with me.i met him in the place he works at last year,and ended up finding out that we went to the same school.we knew each other a little at school.he is two years older than me.his brother was in my class at school.by a funny coincidence,my mum was asked to look after him and his brothers and sisters once,but she didnt as she was already looking after a few kids.i dont think he knows about that.my mum was a childminder,so if i had grown up with him, i would probably have seen him as a brother. he ended up being fostered and so did his siblings.we were amazed when we found out who we both were when we met again last year,as we hadnt seen each other for about 15 years.Anyway,he gave me his number and i went to his place once.obviously,he tried it on but i didnt feel right about it so we didnt have sex.he kept trying to pursue me in his texts but i didnt go to his place again.he had broken up with his girlfriend a few months earlier.they got back together. He told me he went back with her because i rejected him,i also briefly got back with my ex just before he got back with his.we met up for coffee a few months ago.he asked me to meet him.he was still with his girlfriend though.i didnt contact him much after that and then he called me out of the blue last night.we had a bit of a chat and he said he would like to meet for a coffee again.i havent said whether i will or not yet.we have been intouch for 7 months now.why do you think he keeps coming back to me; especially when i havent slept with him like he wanted to ? I dont think i am attractive really but he does.i think he is attractive too.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 July 2011):
 It's called "you never know if you don't try." Some people would do anything when they are going through a dry spell. Nothing he said to you gives you a good reason why you want to meet him again. At least he is being honest and not deceptive. That I would give him credit.
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