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Lauren50
writes:Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been separated from a 10 year marriage for 3 months. (did not leave my husband for this married man by the way) I haved only ever been with my husband and married as a "next step", we were graduating college and were good friends. I know, wrong reasons! We have a 2 year old and are friends and he is a great dad. Anyway, the man i am in love with was my boss, up until April when I was promoted. He is incredible and we have a strong, undeniable connection. I know I am headed for probable heartache and I wish I could have prevented this. He is on his 3rd marriage which has only lasted 2.5 years as his wife was pregnant and that is why they married. He is planning to leave her, however she first needs a job and a place to live which she is working on now. He is just one of those people that thought he was marrying the right person, but did it to keep from being lonely etc. I know how it sounds and it is a long story, but we have a wonderful relationship that was built on a very strong unexpected friendship and connection that just happened. Please help me! I am dying inside.
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reader, catdog +, writes (2 August 2008):
Hi there how are you doing? How's it going? Well my situation is still the same flirting all the time talking about what we would do. He teases an awful lot and then pulls back every time thinking I would talk or I would fall in love with him or I would stalk him. He even said he wanted to have sex with me but that won't happen. I think this is worse then the teasing. I am dying inside too because this has been going on for over a year! I mean at some point I am going to have to walk away. He says he has never cheated on his wife... I told him you are doing that now. The thing is he calls me 5 times a day we spent all day together. He also said we would make a good couple but it is too late for that. Talk about feeling hurt. Well let me know how it is going.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2008):
 I don't understand why you are dying inside. He's leaving his wife and she looking for a new job and a place to live. So it's just a matter of time and logistics, right? Or is he just giving you a load of bull crap and you know it?
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reader, catdog +, writes (8 July 2008):
Hey I am in the same boat... it stinks doesn't it... he calls and says he misses me calls me 5 times a day says all the things flirtatous but gets scared. This has been going on a year and I am well getting real tired. I have actually met someone on line. I have this awesome connection with my married man but like I told him it is not my fault you met me late. Let's share stories if you want. catdog
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