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writes: i think my bf is cheating on me but have a baby with him so don't know what to do... he showed no interest in our baby from the beggining and only does now when showing off to friends. i hardly ever see him and even then he only wants sex, he also had pics of him cuddling up to a girl on his facebook but deleted them when we got closer again then still talk all the time and she puts kisses at the end of her messages. he also tried to kiss one of my friends while i was pregnant.help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): thanks for all the advice it was really helpfull
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reader, jadeybabe116  +, writes (28 June 2009):
Honey, kick this guy to the curb. Your responsibility is to your baby, and that baby deserves a stable home environment. Ask yourself: can you provide that with your man acting like he is? I agree completely with Libra1956 - he isn't ready to be a father and provider and you need to lay down the law. You deserve a happy and fulfilling relationsip, and he isn't giving you or your child what you need. Enlist help from family and friends. Get a safe place to stay and be strong. Good luck!
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 This must be really distressing you. You are quite young. I am assuming he is too by his behaviour but that does not make any difference as older man act similiar.
You have a child to look after. Break off with him. tell him unless he can commit to you and make it clear that you are a couple ...ask him to leave you alone. You can arrange for him to see the child on a regular basis or if you could not cope with that may be leave him with a relative while you are not there to talk to him.
You both really need distance tosort out your heads. Babies do not keep men. They tend to have the reverse effect. It sounds like he was not ready for a baby but was quite happy to make one. Its here now but do not let him use your child like a trophy. If he wants to be a dad let tell him he needs to be a proper and respectful one.
Keep in touch if you wish.
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