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writes:I have a problem with my fiance. Here is a little background about us. We started dating just about 2 years ago. We both were in relationships before for 4 years and broke up and began dating about 1 month later. We had problems with our ex's. His would call literaly none stop to both of us on a blocked number and she also sent me really mean texts about my boyfriend. My ex would just show up and make me talk to him. Now we have a baby that is six months old, fast I know. But we are very happy when we are together. But I found texts in his phone of him talking to his ex and sent pictures of them after they had kissed saying what a nice kiss and do you remember me and that she is important. He also had texts to a "friend" flirting and said he wants to e** her out. We got into a fight but made up. Later I checked his online cellphone account and saw that he had been calling his ex everyday! that he could. Some times for a long time and others not. That it has been going on since before I had the baby. He also was talking a lot to another "friend" I do not know. He says he will stop but I cannot trust him. He promises to tell me but sometimes I see that he erases things. What should I do? Do you think this is cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): Thank you so much for your answers!
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair  +, writes (13 March 2011):
He is obviously cheating on you i mean the texts prove that. But you need to sort things out. He cant keep you in the dark forever. Persuade him to come clean just do things that make you look suspicious and then see if he comes clean and admits it. Its not fair on both you an the baby if he's cheating on you. If he is the least he could do is tell you.Good Luck!
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (12 March 2011):
It is cheating and I doubt he will ever change. I have no idea why you fall for his lies. Maybe you think something is there when there actually isn't and he is the only one you can rely on. I hope he at least pays his child support. I'm not sure where this relationship with him will go but I hope he comes clean at some point and the two of you can stop bullsh!ting each other.
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