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We got back together. Why is he still not speaking to me?

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Question - (5 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex have gotten back together. We were together for a year and half and broke up for a week. We agreed to make things another go. We set a date to see eachother and talk things through properly. He hasn't text me or spoken to me and im worried that he wont want to see me that day. We have hardly spoke atall all week and when he did he told me that he missed me and wanted me over monday. Which is now tomorrow. But we have both beenon facebook chat and he has not spoken to me. Or text me. I think that maybe he still needs his space and will contact me tomorrow when he has arranged a lift for me to go and see him. I might be feeling silly but why has he not spoken to me? If he says he misses me and wants me back wouldnt he want to speak to me? I havent spoken to him either because I dont want to seem needy or desperate. But I am just worried that he has change his mind. I dont really know what I am going to do If I see him because it will be strange for the both of us. any tips on what to say or how to act? I just want to do the right things so we can move forward and get our love strong again. He says he wants me back but he doesnt seem interested at the same time if that makes any sense. Please help!

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A female reader, SweetindianGirl United States +, writes (5 December 2010):

aw i feel the same way! my ex didnt literally say the words lets get back he said lets try go with the flow, im worried as well that he will change his mind, but at that point i think you and i will both realize someone who is unsure now will always be unsure, n i dont want people like tha tin my life. btw if it helps u, ive been with my bf for 4 yrs and hes doing this nwo! so lu cky u, u ahve 3 yrs on me! if i were you, id try and this time YOU make the decisions!

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