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writes: hiya im 18 and sooo confused, i know im straight but about 2 years ago i met a girl, she lives in southampton and i live in birmigham so along way a way, but its hard to explain we spoke al day and got on realy well and she gave me her MSN so we could talk however she blocked me, which was kinda confussing why lol the i saw her again last week and i can stop thinking about her, wats goin on, am i gay or wat!sarah x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): Hi Sarah, I think you are right. It does bother a lot of us when suddenly someone we consider a friend, cuts us off and no longer is interested in maintaining the friendship. Friends are important to all of us and they are usually people we trust and respect. So when a friend suddenly drops us, one feels hurt and confused. But try to understand that friendships do go through phases and people change. It's not always easy to maintain good friendships. Try not to take this to heart because this happens to everyone. Friends come and go. People drift apart, people's interests change-people move on. It sounds like this is what she did. Try not to allow this to bother you, hun and focus on the wonderful bounty of friends you do have. Talking to family members or other good friends, does help ease the disappointment. You will be okay..focus on the positive you have in your life. Good luck, dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): I WROTE THE QUESTION - she is very pretty however i dont think i fancy her, i just think its the fact she just blanked me, kinda mixed my feelings up, nah i just think i miss talking to her and been around her as a friend! but their again, maybe im gay and dont know it!! any adice now?
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 Hiya
This doesn't necesserly mean that you are gay... It could be that you are just anxious as to why she blocked you. If I had a friend or soemone blanking me I reckon I would think about it all the time as well, especially if I saw them and they ignored me.
What exactly happened when you saw her? Also when you think about her what type of things do you think about. Do you imagine yourself with her, pherhaps cuddling and talking and laughing.... If you are aginising over her and thinking about her in this way then maybe the answer is yes you do fancy her and have fallen for her...... But if you just miss speaking to her and are anxious as to why she has blanked you then you may be getting confused with yourself.
It's hard to answer this question but I am straight 100 % so I don't really know how you would feel if your bi-sexual or gay....but I'm almost sure it would just depend on what you were thinking about her and how you imagined things to be to determnind whether you wanted to be with her in a relationship or simply wanted to know and understand why she would suddenly block you.....
Can you elaborate on your feelings at all?
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