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writes: Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 13 months and are have been a very serious relationship from the start. We've gone through a lot in our time together. We met in high school where we both went which was out-of-state from our homes. She is a half of a year behind me in school so after I completed my senior year of highschool, I moved back home for the summer then I moved to a college which is not near her at all. We've been planning for me to move to her go to school there, and live together to share costs. Well, she decided that she didn't want to live with me because she's still young and doesnt want to have to deal with bills (understandable). Now, she doesn't want me to come at all because she wants space to experience things. We've been dating for 13 months but have been in a long-distance relationship for 7 months. If we don't do this now, we'll be apart for at least another 7! Reply to this Question
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reader, farfaraway +, writes (25 November 2006):
farfaraway is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondoes anyone else have any input/ advice with my situation? Do you all agree with greggo?
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reader, greggo +, writes (19 November 2006):
mate its very simple.just agree with her.if she says it not a good idea say "actually,i agree with you".agree with everything she says and then just walk away as if she never existed.it will be hard but grit your teeth and DO IT.and then make no contact whatsoever.ill bet you anything you like,she will call you all screwed within 2 weeks.the advantage then is that YOU are in control.then you can leave her on YOUR terms.because at the end of the day you are both tooooo young for this.get out there my friend and have some FUN.at least by doing what i say you have changed things around and you have left holding all the aces.DONT BE SCARED,TRY IT
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