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writes:i have a boyfriend and we work different places, we always meet up after work but on our days off when we don't meet there's this problem like we have negative thinking bout each other is it right? and at times we doubt each other a lot that we fight and argue with each other over non sense and all the question that come up is bout cheating and sex cause we don't go on proper dates apart from just having sex? what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): no this isn't normal or at least not for a good relationship. it is normal for a dysfunctional or bad relationship, though...
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reader, mystiquek  + ♥, writes (15 December 2011):
 I'm afraid this isn't normal in a strong healthy relationship. You two don't trust each other! Trust should be the foundation of a relationship. Without trust, its like a relationship built on sand. You have nothing.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 This does not sound like a healthy relationship.
A healthy relationship is based around thinking positively about each other rather than negatively.
A healthy relationship is about trust and not wasting both your energies fighting and arguing.
It sounds as if you both have gotten into an addictive pattern.
I also have a feeling this negative feeling is going to get built up over time and ending up much worse than it is now.
If you find the relationship is not working you both need to let it go.
Basically it means your both not compatible.
I hope this helps!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 December 2011):
 Your submittal "sounds" like a typical drama- and angst-laden arrangement. Is THAT what you seek in a relationship with a guy? IF "yes," then continue as you have been doing. IF you'd prefer to have a warm and loving relationship, built on caring (including trust), then you probably have to get a different guy-friend...
Good luck....
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