New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244961 questions, 1084297 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*herrie_StPierre agony aunt

*herrie_StPierre

Australia  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *herrie_StPierre to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *herrie_StPierre a private message

*herrie_StPierre's Ratings
Excellent90%
Average0%
Poor10%
*herrie_StPierre's profile:

I have studied sex and relationships for many years now. I have helped people all over the world bring love and romance into their lives. I share with people, ways to have that perfect relationship inside and out with the one they love.

I have many secrets to keeping your partner wanting you and only you for as long as you want them to with a blissful and healthy relationship.

If you are looking for that perfect relationship or wanting to make your relationship stronger, do not hesitate to contact me. xoxoxox

You can also find me on Facebook, Myspace, Twitter and Yahoo :)

www.Creative-Seduction.com Coming Soon!

Can someone please tell me what is wrong with my ex boyfriend??

Q.   Okay, I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible. My ex boyfriend and I were together for a yr and a half. I'm 25 and he's a few years younger than me. We rushed things in the beginning and moved in together immediately. He was absolutely ...

A.   1 February 2011: You have to stop this. You just need to have no contact at all. This relationship is no good as a couple or as friends. This is going to happen over and over again. It's getting really hard for the both of you. Friends can't have casual sex, it just ... (read in full...)

He lied to me and now is telling me I'm too controlling!

Q.   My boyfriend is telling me I have to stop controlling him. I have been with him for over a year now this march an we have a 5 month old together too. Yes I have trust issues with him bc of our past, my trust has gotten stronger an better with him, ...

A.   1 February 2011: Because he's untrustworthy! You keep giving him chances and then he keeps lying and covering up stuff. You really need to sit him down and have a good long talk about this. If he loves you at all, he will take into consideration how hard he is ... (read in full...)

I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend

Q.   I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...

A.   30 January 2011: Sweetie, you just need to tell him. He has a right to know. He might be upset that you didn't tell him right away. But if he does have any love for you, he will be there for you. You can't keep it from him so he will stay with you. If that is the ... (read in full...)

He comments that I smell great. Does he want to date me?

Q.   There is this guy at my gym who will on occasion tease me about my workouts. He will make comments about the machines I am on and the weight I am lifting. Then one day I am getting a protein shake and he walks up to me and say's god you smell ...

A.   30 January 2011: oh he's interested. He sounds like he has a great personality too. if you like him, definitely ask him if he wants to go out sometime. xoxoxox... (read in full...)

How do we trust our friend who bailed on us?

Q.   Hi, last night my 3 friends and I decided we were all gonna get dressed and ready for winterball together. But at the last minute one of them bailed and went with other girls, even though we had been planing for weeks. So my other friend and I get ...

A.   30 January 2011: This friend doesn't sound like a very good friend at all. And she sounds a bit jealous too. I wouldn't take any notice of how she is reacting and I would slowly disconnect yourself from her. If you can't trust your friends, they shouldn't be your ... (read in full...)

I've been trying to talk to her for 3 months! Is she playing hard to get?

Q.   Well, I have done everything I can to pursue a girl on facebook - I have met her once in person although I have trying to get her contact information without any success so far. This is all the stuff that I have done though facebook 1. Told her th...

A.   30 January 2011: I'm sorry to sound mean but you are the one that is coming off psychopathic. Your almost stalking her through Facebook. This girl doesn't seem very interested and she is just being nice by not answering you. If you cant say something nice, don't say ... (read in full...)

Friends with a player who I think likes me?

Q.   My best guy friend (RK) and I have been best friends for a couple of years and i've always had a soft spot for him. He's funny, good looking, kind, interesting and basically everything about him attracts me to him. I've liked him on and off for n...

A.   30 January 2011: I don't think he's playing with you. He has been your friend for a couple of years. he genuinely seems to have caring feelings for you. I think you two have a fantastic friendship and if it progresses, let it. xoxoxox ... (read in full...)

We don't have enough time for each other and he blames me!

Q.   My partner is madly in love with me and he knows i love him but when things r busy at home we dont get time togather then he blames me for this and goes funny on me even he day befor was home day .g dont even have do any thing to set him like this. ...

A.   30 January 2011: So really, you have 5 children. Sit him down, touch him and explain why it is difficult. He sounds like the type of man that needs validation of your love every day. he must have been really hurt by someone before to be acting this way. So, try to ... (read in full...)

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

Q.   Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

A.   30 January 2011: I think you two need to seek some counseling if you want the relationship to continue. Honestly, to me, she sounds like she is cheating again. or thinking about it, I don't know. And I can't understand for the life of me how she can do all this to ... (read in full...)

Stuck in a viscious cycle of arguing with my husband

Q.   I am a married mother of two toddlers, married for 6 years. My husband and I are stuck in a viscious cycle of blame and arguing. We have a multitude of problems... mostly I think it stems from lack of good communication, and stress, but I am at a ...

A.   30 January 2011: Well you have been through the ringer havn't you...You really need to think about what your saying. He complains that you don't clean. Does he help you do any of it? He doesn't help you with the kids at night. You have no money, is he even looking ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of my husband acting like a teenager! Is it time to leave?

Q.   Hello, First off, I've been married 20 years. For the most part its been a good relationship. However, there's been issues of him isolating me from my friends throughout the whole marriage. If I do go out which is probably 15 times in 20 year...

A.   30 January 2011: I think it is definitely time to leave. And don't go back to him this time. There is obviously no passion, no romance, he doesn't seem to want to listen or understand, there is no trust from him, he sounds mentally abusive, controlling and childish. ... (read in full...)

I want to show him I care without scaring him off

Q.   This is actually a followup on a couple of posts that I submitted while things were building up to the point where we are now. And on those previous posts, most of the replies I got were very negative, and said this means nothing, I wouldn't see ...

A.   30 January 2011: You tell him that you feel really comfortable with him and you will wait as long as it takes to have another special time like you had together. I really don't think you should tell him just yet that you love him. You should tell him that you are ... (read in full...)

Concerned about fiance's relationship with a co-worker

Q.   I just found out that my fiancee has been more than a little friendly with a married male work colleague. I always assumed their chats were fairly innocent seeing as they didn't communicate that often. But I did some snooping and I was shocked at ...

A.   30 January 2011: Hmmm, I think there is a bit more going on here. Why on earth does she need to webcam with this man. And is he not married? I would sit her down and tell her that all this makes you way too uncomfortable and if she can't stop talking with him, then ... (read in full...)

My husband always has the air conditioning on even though it bothers me and the baby

Q.   i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the ...

A.   30 January 2011: This is a bit serious of a situation. You two need to learn to communicate more. That's what marriage is about. You really should sit him down and come up with a compromise. If he's hot, go take a cold shower, or maybe have one room designated for ... (read in full...)

Should I get him something or wait for him to make a move?

Q.   I sit next to this guy in my college class who was a friend of mine from high school. He's a year younger than I am, but we get along like PB and J. One day he asked me out of nowhere if I liked anybody on the swim team back in high school--I said ...

A.   30 January 2011: Definitely do not wait. Show him you like him if you do. You only live once and if you don't show him how interested you are, you may regret it the rest of your life. xoxoxox... (read in full...)

I lack a lot of confidence and am always so worried about never finding someone special?

Q.   This may sound immature for someone my age, but anyway, I'm 21 years old and am in my second year of the nursing program. I'm involved in a sorority and am busy most of the time with everything in my life and it may appear as though I'm content. But ...

A.   30 January 2011: Sweetie. Look in that mirror and tell yourself your beautiful. Surely there has to be something you like. The way you think about yourself reflects the way others see you. You need to stop thinking that way. You sound like such a sweet person. Don't ... (read in full...)

Distant Boyfriend

Q.   I am 29 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for 2 years. We have been fighting a lot lately about anything and have both decided that we want to work on things. However, he has not been putting in the effort. I havent seen him in over a ...

A.   30 January 2011: Sounds like maybe he wants his cake and eat it too? A healthy relationship is all about communication. If you can't do that, then there is no point being together. You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel about this. Tell him that he's not ... (read in full...)

Married 5 years, still virgins, help!

Q.   This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before ...

A.   29 January 2011: I don't understand how you have had this marriage so long and have not discussed this issue with her. A relationship is all about communication with the other person. If you can't communicate with her, you are wasting years of your life away. I ... (read in full...)

Are love and marriage a deadline?

Q.   Does anyone else think women now a days are more in love with the idea of "love" and "marriage" then they are with the true meaning behind it. I keep meeting more and more women who talk about marriage like a dead line rather then the importance of ...

A.   29 January 2011: True love always waits. I think you are meeting the wrong types of women. Maybe they make it seem like a deadline because they can't find anyone that wants to marry them.... (read in full...)

I'm allowing this impossible crush to ruin my life...help!!

Q.   It's been asked a billion times. How to get a crush out of ones head. As the story goes... I met a woman, I fell for her from the first second I saw her, we talked, I could not take her off my mind and we met and met again, at some point I con...

A.   28 January 2011: It's natural for you to still think about her because you viewed her as a perfect woman. You have to give it time. I know you have been but it can sometimes take many many months if not years to get over someone. I know it's hard. I do suggest that ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend trying to dump me again??

Q.   Hi my bf was really moody and nasty with me for the past 2 weeks. I felt very depressed and scared that he is going to dump me again ( he already did twice) and called him yesterday middle of the night. When i logged into IM today to chat wit...

A.   28 January 2011: This doesn't sound like a very good relationship. If he has already broken up with you twice and it sounds like this is the third time, to me, it sounds like he has no love for you at all and you shouldn't waste your time. Anyone who calls their ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a selfish lover. Do I give him more chances, or kick him to the wind?

Q.   I've been widowed for 11 years now and haven't dated at all in all that time. My son is now in University, and my 2 daughters will be heading there in the next year. This past November, I started dating a man that I've known for many years. Afte...

A.   28 January 2011: You should tell him what you told us. Stop being so selfish! Tell him you will not keep on giving if he is not willing to reciprocate the favor. A relationship is not a one way street, emotionally or sexually. If he still refuses, you should rethink ... (read in full...)

Help with gf's violent ex partner

Q.   Please help, my “GF” has come out of a very violent relationship of 8 years after a particularly bad beating from her ex-partner (the bruises were awful) she decided to leave him me and her have been getting on well for a long time as friends she ...

A.   27 January 2011: Abuse is a touchy thing. When a woman is in an abusive relationship, especially for that length of time, her self esteem has been broken down. Abusers do this on purpose so that she will feel that he is the only one good enough for her, even though ... (read in full...)

How can we stop fighting and get back to how we used to be?

Q.   My partner and i have been together for 2 and half years. things were great at the start but as life gose on a few problems come with it. Laterly all we seem to be doing is fighting. We have spoke many times about whats going on and end the end we ...

A.   27 January 2011: The honeymoon affect is over. After a while, it takes a lot of work to keep the relationship strong and loving. Your relationship may be going through rough times now but it doesn´t mean it has to end. Neither of you want it to. Talking about that ... (read in full...)

He's abusive, but I don't know how to live without him. What should I do?

Q.   Im in 2 relationship for the past 4 years. My boyfriend beats me up. I've lost all my friends for him.now I have no one to tell me what to do. Every1, including his friends have told me to move on and I also tried. I tried getting into another ...

A.   27 January 2011: So many women go through this. The fact is sweetie, he does not love you. Men do not abuse the woman they love. Abusers have a sick and twisted sense of love and honestly, it will only get worse. He has beaten down your self esteem so that you will ... (read in full...)

*herrie_StPierre's friends

These are mutual friends, so *herrie_StPierre has added them and they have added *herrie_StPierre!

aunt honesty agony auntaunt honesty
chigirl agony auntchigirl

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.125005800000508!