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*achakaRoni
writes:I don't understand,I started seeing this guy bout a month ago. I had split up ith my boyfriend 3 months before and he split up with his girlfriend a month before seeing me. because we had both been hurt before, we decided to take things slowly and not be unfaithful to eachother but, I havent seen him outside of work for over 2 weeks and I feel he is distant outside of work. do you think he didnt mean what he said? why did he say it then, if he didnt mean it?
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reader, RachakaRoni +, writes (1 July 2008):
RachakaRoni is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah we both said we wud take things slowly. does that mean anything different?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (1 July 2008):
 Hi,
This doesnt sound to hopeful. If he only split up a month ago, chances are he is still hurting big time.
Why don't you send him an email and just ask him if he would mind having a coffee and chat with you. The only real way is to ask him to tell the truth.
But be prepared, you may not like the answer you are going to get.
Good luck anyway mate.
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reader, Ski  +, writes (1 July 2008):
that is way super extreme thaking it slow simply means mabey no kissing till after a few dates and no frenching for a few weeks or months nothing as extreme as that though I wouldnt ever consider that taking it slow I'd say that's just silly I mean if some one asked you do you have a boy friend what do u say "yeah every 2 weeks" that's just silly try asking him out to dinner mabey he's just a shy one
Lots of love & I hope I helped,
Ski
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