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writes:My partner and I have recently got back together after a 12 month split. The problem was that he had started another relationship and although I knew of her existence he had told me that their relationship was all but over, he just needed to tell her. It was just after we started seeing each other again that he told me she actually lived with him. This was in February this year.He has spoken to her, she doesn't know about me although she has voiced her suspicions and she started looking for a flat. The first one fell through during April. The second one went ahead and she collected the keys last week, was supposed to move in last Friday but she's still at his!!!!!Called him this morning and he said she's supposed to be going this Tuesday. I'm so stressed out and having a go at him all the time. I've not been able to text him in case she reads his messages, or phone him, not been able to go out with him cos he would have to make excuses.How can I stop myself from self destructing over this, it just seems the date for her going is forever changing and I just want to be with the man I love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): Hi,I have actually a very simillar problem ... I am also dating someone,that lives with someone else.He is telling me,he will get her out soon, cause he wants to be with me,but the "picture" of her,beeing with him, when I am not there,is killing me and I can't stop thinking about it. I don't know if I can take it much longer (we have been going out for two months now)
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reader, elsie +, writes (21 May 2007):
 oh dear warning bells going off big time.why on earth doesnt she know anything about you?thats the first glowingly obvious question?why has he kept quiet?sorry but why cant you text him?she might read his messages but their all but split up.if it were me i wouldnt believe a bloody word of it.you should be his top priority.what does he think shes going to do?as for not being able to see each other well that just stinks full stop.im so sorry about sounding so harsh but it all sounds to me like hes having an affair and its with you!you say you just want to be with the man you love and whilst it may be more difficult for him i think hes stalling for time.tell him to tell her to move out and tell her about you as well then watch for his reaction that should tell you it all.good luck and let us know how you do.
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