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writes: Has he lied to me about the reason he wanted to split up to protect me?I have just recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We didn't have a bad relationship, well it was a lot of one sided though. He always did what he wanted to do and then fit me in. He loved his fishing, football, golf, pool and going to his local. I let him do anything to a certain extent, but I got a job that was shifts so whenever he was free I would be working,so that's when I think he felt the pressure.He said that he wanted to split up cause he wanted to do his own thing and not have to tell anyone where he is going or put anything off to suit me. He said he didn't want anyone else and if he did it would be me. That he loved me more than anything and if he stayed way me he would only hurt me more.So we split, but he would still text me saying he missed me, and when exchanging stuff he even tried to sleep way me. I did one night but ended up in tears during. He said we will sort things out he just wants a bit of space. Anyway I eventually told him to stop texting and that he is messing with my head. That weekend I saw him with a girl I used to work with. I phoned him and he told me he was kissing her and that he had her number and was going to phone her. They have seen together a few times. But she is well know to be a slapper and is not very nice at all. It just doesn't make sense to me.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (23 September 2005):
 What doesnt make sense? Its bleemin obvious that he's playing both the girl and you out!! He's using her to maybe get you back (as he's not sure whether he will or not and does not want to lose his dignity doin it), and in the meantime, he gets sex from her as well!! So why not??!!...Thats what he's thinking. Thats why he's telling you that he did this and that with her and what his plans with her are over the phone. Dont fall for it, you're better than this. Well, if he really liked being with a slapper then you should be happy for him aye?? He's useless if you ask me!! Couldnt even get a better girl to get you jealous about. Who does he think he is? Brad pitt? Even brads not as sleazy as your ex. Let him go from your life!! Hes not worth it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2005): It sounds like he just wants to have a friend with benefits to me, or say, a sex buddy. You don't need that kind of guy. You need to get over him and move on to someone that would give you time and love you want. This guy is bad news.
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