We broke up, he spent the night, then acted cold in the AM. Is he using me?

A female age 36-40, *yel writes:

i broke up with my boyfriend like a month and a half ago, i want to know if he is using me or not! he is living with friends right now and he is required to have a visitor pass, last night he calls me and asks me if he can come over for the night because he forgot to get a visitor's pass, i told him ok! when he came over he tried to kiss me and held me like he used to before,( we did not have sex because i do not do things like that if i am not with someone) he apologize for the way he acted a few days ago ( we had an argrument) then he tells me that he misses me and i asked him if he was serious but i do not believe that i do not people stringing me along, then he acted cold like he did not want to hold me like if he was scared or something, in the morning he woke up and left, what do u make from that does he still love me or not or is he just usin me?

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