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*hica209
writes:ok you kno what happend? okay im really angry! He broke up with me..I WANT 2 get over him!!!! ASAP!! he told me that he got another girl pregnate! but i thnk he is lying to make me feel bad..i kno that there is other guys in the world who will love me..but somtimes i think i want him back..i cant really picture myself with someone else? i really need advice!
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 October 2007):
 This may sound weird coming from a guy. I agree with the other comment. My species (male) is not worth attaching your life too. This guy is an ass. Don't get back with him.You need to spend some time and build yourself back up. I could tell you don't feel too happy right now with who you are by the way you viewed at least 1 guy in the world. I know you seek love, many people do, but don't try too hard. If you do, you'll end up making the wrong choices in who to be with. There's only one thing to say when he says he got this girl pregnant. "So, I'm not the one who's having to pay 18 years of child support."Take some time to feel good about yourself. Realize you are a good person, and only deserve the best. Never just settle. If you went back with him, you'd be settling. And if he is someone who is lying about it, you don't want a lier to be with, that would be a bad situation. Take care.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 ok calm down first off. dont get into a state over him. hes not worth it. one of two things is going on here and both of them make him a creep. either:
- he did get someone else pregnant. hardly makes him prince charming does it?
- he didnt get anyone pregnant and he's lying to try to hurt you. AGAIN, hardly makes him prince charming. Real men dont set out to hurt people.
Either way hes not a very nice person, not very emotionally mature and just a general loser. sorry if its harsh. but its true.
the feelings you have right now are very real but very normal too. its completely normal to feel like you cant imagine being with someone else, no matter how angry you are at him. its just because you are used to being with him. take it one day at a time, dont contact him at all. you need a clean break from him and his mind games and you deserve to be with someone who will treat you right and do whatever they can to make you happy. not whatever they can to hurt you.
keep busy and fill your life with as many things as possible and soon you will be feeling 100 times better and wondering why you ever put up with any of his games and immaturity and you WILL find someone amazing and special and you'll look back on this and laugh at how sad he was.
brooke
xx
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