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writes:me and my ex have split about 4 months ago it was a bad break up. but recently i found a lump and get really scared, and as i do still love him and feel i can tell him anything, i phoned him and told him. due to this we are in contact. we both agreed we arent ready for a realtionship again and that we should stay friends and then see how we feel in time. i agreed with this, but its stoping me meeting other boys. he as admited he has met up with 2 girls but nothing came of it and that he isnt stoppin me from doin this to, but when i even say about a boy he goes quiet. should i wait round and see what happens with my ex or should i just realise it didnt work and try and move on and be friends, and try and cut the feelings ?? ( i found out the lump was just a cist )
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 It all depends on what kind of a guy he is. If he's a lowlife, then just stay friends. If you think he's a reasonable person, then you can get involved sexually with him again. That's the logical way of looking at it. If you want to see it from a more bizarre perspective, you could have sex with him a few times as an experiment and then find out whether you and him are still in love, and then make a decision.
Anyway, in a world like this, when you make the right decision in relationships, often someone gets jealous of you and tries to break it up.
Some people do get jealous. I hope this answers your question. Take care and God bless.
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reader, Ye Baby  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 First and foremost, i hope that you have made an appointment to see a doctor?
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reader, Brokenhearted19 +, writes (6 August 2011):
 I think you should try and move on to something new. I know its going to be hard letting go of someone you really care about but if its not meant to be then its not worth trying to work it out...Im just saying.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 I personally don't think it works to stay friends with your ex unless there are children involved. Move on with your life because as you have admitted you are closing yourself off to other opportunites with him in the background.
Turn to your family when you need emotional support not him.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (6 August 2011):
 O.k. well you never know what could happen in the future. But it's clear that right now your ex has clearly moved on...so you should too. Explore other options- and refrain from telling him about who you've met or dated. This puts him in an awkward position. So it's best to just keep it to yourself or tell a friend.
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