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writes:I'm in a love triangle. I like a girl and so does another guy. Should I speak to him about it? Do I ask if he likes her? Or does that show me as insecure. If he knows I like her then maybe he will back off or fight for her? is it worth fighting over a woman? help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 well how do you know he likes her?
does she like you or does she like him?
this is between you and her NOT YOU and him.
HE has nothing to do with you (unless he's your best friend and then walk away from her if he is going after her already it's never worth losing a friend over a date)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 November 2014):
 There are two things a guy should never fight over....
1. A girl,
2. A skunk....
Good luck....
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 November 2014):
 I assume that another guy is not your best friend, just someone you know. The one who asks the girl first and have her say yes is the one who wins. There is no need for a fight. You are not animals. It depends on two factors:
who the girl likes better. A girl will be impressed by confidence so if she likes you then she will probably forget about the other guy.
Also this one: how far do you intend on this, is this just a series of date, to see if you can score, or do you want to have a long term thing?
I am asking because if this guy is your best friend and you would not do anything to mess up this friendship for a piece of ass, then maybe fighting over a woman isn't worth it. If your friendship started from grade school up until now. You have certain loyalty to him. If this is the case I would back off. If he is just an acquaintance then who cares what he thinks. In general dating among the friendship circle can spell trouble in the future with trust issues.
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