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writes: I have been seeing my boyfriend for 10 mths now and I've been living with him for the last month. Sometimes we get on so well that I feel like he's my soulmate, but then every 4 or 5 days he brings up something to fight over and I can't handle it. He makes me so mad that I think I just want to finish with him rather than put up with it. I'm quite a free soul. I love my friends. Spending time with them is important to me, cause they've been there for me always. He gets jealous of that too. I think that even though I love him and would miss him like mad that I might not be ready for a relationship, but I can't really go home as I don't talk to my step mum and barely talk to my father. What should I do???
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reader, pops +, writes (18 June 2005):
Jealousy is simply a reflection of self doubt, and poor self image. I always ask people who are acting " Jealous", what does he/she have that you don't? How can you get it?Does it really matter? Don't you have other characteristics that are more worthy than whatever it is you think you lack? I don't know how you can put up with a jealous boyfriend, or girlfriend. It just does not work. Its hard enough to contribute to a relationship whatever you have, without trying to supply him with something someone else has. Dump this guy. He need professional counseling, and until he gets that help, and grows up, he is no good for you. Stick with your friends. I suspect that after you leave this jerk, they will come clean and tell you honestly what they thought of him, and it won't be nice. Been there.pops
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (17 June 2005):
RIGHT TRY AND GET A PLACE OF YOUR OWN OR SHARE A FRIENDS PLACE TILL U GET A PLACE WHEN YOU HAVE THAT SORTED TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO STOP THE JEALOUSY OTHER WISE YOUR GONE! AND U MEAN IT! IF IT DOESNT STOP THEN PACK UR STUFF WHY HIS OUT LEAVE HIM A LOVEING NOTE E.G I CANT GO ON WITH YOUR JEALOUS WAYS I LOVE YOU 2 BITS IF YOU LOVE ME 2! THEN UR STOP THE JEALOUSY! GARANTEE HELL RING YOU OR GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU IF HE DOESNT THEN IT WAS NEVER LOVE! SO FROM THEN GIVE IT WEEKS MONTHS UP 2 U! STILL NOT HEARD FROM HIM FROM YOUR SELF ANOTHER MAN! BECAUSE YOU WILL FIND BETTER OUT THERE!
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