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*ayde07
writes:Hi,i am 16 years old and i am worried because my boyfriend that i am with now we havent slept together, and we are plannin on sleeping together and i dont know how to give a blow job and i need as much advice as i can. can you help please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): im bi and my boyfriend knows this, i feel like he takes advantge of this though because he always talks about other girls, this never bothered me before but it does now, a lot! im not a virgin either but for some reason when i talk to my boyfriend about sex i feel nervous and like i dont want to do the things we talk about, this has never happened to me before and im starting to feel really depressed does anybody know why?
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (6 November 2007):
 At your age then you should be inexperienced! I appreciate you may feel under pressure to perform but relax and don't sleep with him unless you are dead certain you are ready.
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reader, MonDoc  +, writes (6 November 2007):
Sex and its associated acts come more naturally than what you think, so don't freak out about it. And even if it doesn't, and you're in a good relationship, you'll communicate & tell each other what you like. Tell HIM that you've not ever done that before and ask HIM for guidance -- and he should do the same for you.
There's no such thing as textbook "good" sex... what is good is what is good for the couple --- basically, you write your own book!
Have fun & be safe.
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reader, Jayde07 +, writes (6 November 2007):
Jayde07 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot both of u
u helped alot xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Honestly, if you have any doubt in your mind then you're not ready. Tell your boyfriend you want to wait, and if he can't accept that then he really doesn't care about how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): Ok honey let me tell you something if you are so nervous and freaking out about it dont do it because you will regrret it in the end if it dosent work out. You are so young you shoudlnt even thinking about it,There are going to be heaps of males so take your time.......You should feel comfterable with your boyfreind not nervous because you dont know what you do. Take care
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