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*weetheart03
writes:We been together 5 years we been broken up for almost 5 months. He told me he wanted to work things out and become faithful to me. He even told me I could see his phone records so I know he won't be cheating. But right now while we are just getting back in the grove of things I always think he's doing something. I don't just think it I'm positive in my head I don't have any proof other then him not picking his phone up. We are not together and he can do what he wants but he said he wouldn't lie or spend time with any females and I think he is. I know I may be wrong because of his past I'm just worried and can't relax! Should I not go through with us working things out cause I can't handle it. He's even worried I will start fights cause before I did big fights and sometimes I was 100 percent wrong! But sometimes in the past I've been 100 percent right. What should I do? Its so hard to let him go I feel he's my soul mate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): If he's your soul mate, and he's offered you his telephone records, what more do you need to feel safe. You say something about his past, what did he do in the past which makes you feel insecure. He's been away from you for 5months, because he wants to be "faithfull" to you... well that dosen't sound right... What has your guy done, how come you've broken up. There is more to your story than the things you tell us here. You need to give us more information, so we can give you the advice you need. Please update with more details about your relationship with this guy.
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reader, Auntiee Amsiee  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 A main foundation of a relationship is trust it seems as if there is not trust at all in your relationship. go through with this break it will be hard honey, but if you learn to develop some form of trust it is likely you will have a healthier relationship in the future. if he does do something while in the break he may not be your soulmate even if you feel he is, also if he does this you will always have a nagging concern of him being unfaithful. i think if you do not go through with the break he will get angry for your inability to trust him.
good luck
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