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writes:Hi, I am close to breakingup with my boyfriend the reason is that we fight alot. It got to a point that we are emotionaly sick . The hardnest thing is that we have a child and we truly wanted the relationship to work cause we wanted to have a family together. I still love him but it is to much that I don't know if I should leave him or try our relationship. I feel trap inside of me cause I wanted our relationship to work but it just get worse and I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen we are fighting it had gone to verbal abuse. We tried talking sometimes and we get solution we can be fine for 1 or 2 weeks and it comes back to fighting again. We fight over family issues he doesn't like my mother and family and I don't like his mother.
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Hi,
I am not sure what advice to give you, because you didn't explain the reason why you & your boyfriend are fighting so much..
But you explain clearly that is affecting your relationship to the point of damaging emotionally & physically, so its very serious..
Well, you said you both have a child together & you still love him? I believe those two reasons are good enough to work through the problems you both are having.
I'll suggest, 1st stop the fighting! Whatever the problem is will not be solve arguing. Get to the source of the problem, have a calm, honest talk with him. Explain how you're feeling, what's bothering you & how you'd like things to be for now on... Also, its important to let him talk, explain himself...
Hope you both stop fighting & hope you feel better for your child... If there's love, then still have a chance..
Good luck!
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