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*ammysoasian
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and five months. We have talked about everything and and now it seems like because of that we have nothing to talk about, i believe another person had ask a similar question to mine but some answers say "go out for dinner" We're sixteen and have no money. So what do i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): You do what older people in relationships do --- you work the problem together. And in overcoming that challenge you build the quality of yourselves and of your relationship.
So, how do we work the problem? Well, you're obviously going to have to do that yourselves, but here's some ideas.
What's free? Grab the tourist magazine, every town has one. Circle what's both free and interesting. Discuss which you'd like to see and why. Then go and do them.
What about your secret places that magazines don't know about? My town has a caravan park on a cliff with a view up the beach. Stunning when the sun is setting.
Board games. Get the old pre-TV ones, cheap enough second-hand (and where do you get them? School fetes and car boot sales -- something else that's cheap). Kick your bf's ass at Scrabble and see what he is like under pressure and when he loses.
Walk your town. That hill up the back of your place. Just what is it like? A good chance to perv on your bf's tight butt as he climbs the hill. That train that runs through the tunnel cut through the hills, what's that like?
Pursue your hobby. So you were on the swim team? So drag him to the pool. You like scrapbooking, well get him involved. You like XBox, well frag his sorry ass.
The "go out to dinner" answer wasn't bad -- you just have to change it to meet your circumstances. What's the cheapest thing you can cook that is in the house? Chappatis? You've got an Internet full of recipies -- have some fun with it.
You'll note that the important thing here is that you are having experiences together. Shared experiences is one of the things that builds relationships. They don't have to be "wow" experiences, and you'll find that people's most precious times together usually aren't. I just loved when my gf and I were camping, and we walked half-way down a cliff and snuggled together under a sleeping bag, watching the ocean below. Although we'd gone down there to have sex, we didn't end up doing that, it was just nicer as it was.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (4 January 2011):
I can say start looking for a job...but...
Then you can talk about your work day :)
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