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We agreed she can see her fling once a week & our sex life has improved. Just wondering if it's normal...

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Question - (17 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

My wife is 53 and I am 55 and children have left. My wife's behavior has changed since she went on a residential weekend where she had a fling with a much younger man. After a lot of discussion I have told her that it is OK and she reassured me it won't happen again.

She has though started to go out a lot and tells me she is meeting a girlfriend on the course. However one evening I noticed in her bag that she had sexy underwear and a short skirt which I haven't seen before.I asked her about it and she admitted to seeing the younger man again and would like to continue but that our marriage was safe.

It's always difficult when it happens to you. I want her to be happy but don't want to rock the boat and marriage. We agreed that She could see him once a week only. The only thing is she is looking very good on it and our sex life and relationship has improved since she has been seeing him.

Is this normal and do mature women become more sexual and flirtatious as they get older?

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2005):

harshbutfair agony auntBoy this is a tough one. To even things out you need to find YOURSELF some young totty to have fun with. Only once a week would be OK to start with. And probably on the same night as your wife gets her weekly fill.

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