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writes: Hi. There is this guy who I have guessed and he has shown he likes me. Only he is 1 year and a half younger and I was in a relationship at the time I met him. And he did not know until he saw me and my boyfriend really close once. I recently got to contact him again through e-mail. And at his first e-mail he said he thanks me for contacting him again, but he is really busy with school, work and computer games but has to turn me down nicely. Then I e-mail him again. And he e-mail me calling it "clarification time". He said He is very busy, but that I was very nice in the email and that he will be my online pal. So that is good. Today I email him letting him know where my new work is and gave him my phone number. At the time he got really red around me, invited me to a movie, let me know my boyfriend was not good, because my ex did drugs, called me once at my house and since we worked in the same place almost. Well, I vacuumed the professioanl building by the mall and he worked at Zellers store. He asked me the things I liked and I told him books, movies, etc. And do you know that he actually spent one whole night with me? He even brought a Harry Potter book and read it to me all night.Helplesssly not knowing what to do. Beginning to have crush on hime too. He recently turned 20 and I'm 21.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (22 January 2006):
 Well it is possible he liked you alot and seeing you with your boyfriend at the time hurt him and he is now trying to remain a little detached so as not to get hurt. I think the key thing here is to build up the rapport you once had again.
This will take time. So it maybe prudent not to push the issue right now. Go with the online pal thing for the minuete and see it as possibly being a steping stone towards better things. Keep the contact regular and keep the conversation flowing and see where that leads you. When the time is right ask if you can call to speak on the phone and assuming all goes well eventually you will hopefully be in a position to ask to meet.
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