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writes:I think me and my grind nearly kissed. He's a guy and I don't think either of us are the other ones type at all, he's certainly not mine. We aren't romantically compatible because we both want very different things from a relationship, but recently, when we were just hanging out at his house and our other friends had left (I wasn't being picked up for another hour and it's not unlike us to be comfortable chilling out together just us) we started talking about some emotional things in our lives and we were very close. There were a couple of moments where the opportunity arose for a kiss (I'm not sure if he would've kissed me but it seemed like it so I moved a little further away). I can't say that I 100% didn't want him to kiss me; maybe 99%. I just know it would complicate our friendship and we aren't compatible as a couple. Was I right not to try to kiss him or am I being stupid??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (13 April 2012):
 If you didn't want to kiss him, then yes.
Not sure why you are doubting your own judgement.
Kissing and romantic emotions can easily ruin a friendship.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 April 2012):
 You were right and I am surprised you even doubt yourself, do you feel obliged to kiss any guy just because he's close by and you are alone together ? Even if you don't really want to ? ....
Who cares about what "so many people"" do, "so many people " do so many stupid things every moment !
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (13 April 2012):
 If you don't want to kiss someone then yes, its the right thing. Why are you even second guessing yourself? Why do you think you owe it to any guy to kiss him, just because there was an opportunity?
Girl you need to own yourself. I don't want you on here one day regretting a sexual history because you didn't have the strenght to say no.
You have a right to say NO with out any explaination, its on the WORLD CHARTER OF HUMAN RIGHTS. Look it up, and learn it off by heart.
I want you to say over and over again in your head "I have a right to say no" for a whole week. And until the end of that week, no time alone with any males... Ok?
Say it like a crazy person till its embedded in your mind. Lots of love
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