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writes:Basically there was a guy I was dating for 4 months and since I have moved back to my home town, this guy has cut if off with me doesn't speak to me and makes excuses when I want to speak to him. So I confronted him and he said whatever we has was a 'laugh', my response was that it wasn't to me, from there he claimed he didn't know where he stood when I did ask him 2 months in where our relationship was going, after that I said I did not want to talk to him again, however, he knows I will be moving back to the same town as him for work next month, and said lets have a chat in person and talk about it properly then?what does that mean? And should I have chat with him in person? Or was he plain using me for sex which he cant get for the next month as I moved back? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 July 2014):
 I'd cut the contact totally, there is nothing for you here.
He will gladly STRING you along for company and sex if you are close enough for booty calls.
I think you already know the score.
A guy calling what you thought was a relationship a "laugh" is NOT going to be serious about you EVER.
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (2 July 2014):
 Sounds like he was just using you for sex, no doubt he will be chatty again when he wants to get laid. Move on to someone who is more willing to try and make a relationship work and wait until sex a little longer next time.
Mark
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