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writes:I've been seeing a girl for the past two years who i now believe is to young for me to date, i went home on a christmas vacation and met up with another girl who i have had a crush on for more than 6 years,and am now in love with the old flame and dont know what to do about he girl ive being seeing for the past two years, if i break the news to her and tell her we should lay it off, am gonna break her heart, what should i do?
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reader, Figster86  +, writes (12 January 2009):
your best not to tell her the real reason sounds mean but its the best way for her not to be as hurt i know id feel a lot worse if my bloke said hed found someone else who he liked longer than me id feel 2nd best. Id rather be told that its not working out. You need to be sure this other girl is worth it too, good luck
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reader, Jillybean234  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 I hate boys. You're going to break her heart, that's the answer. She loves you and trusts you and your off having feelings for an old crush. Poor girl. Two years down the drain for someone you have liked even longer then her. That's going to give her the kind of feeling that will make her want to die from a broken heart. That's the truth. It's going to make her feel worthless and dumb. I bet that girl you have a "crush" on maybe won't even like your or want to take care of you and love you like your girlfriend probably does. I also love how you want to break up with a girl you have loved for two years for some crush. NICE. About the age thing.... who cares. Age doesn't really matter when you're an adult. And your old and ugly she will still look hot. She is probably such a nice good girl. Why do boys always have to break our hearts. :(
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reader, kymommy +, writes (12 January 2009):
you need to weigh your pros and cons. You had to see past the age difference and found something in her you liked other wise you wouldnt of been with her for 2 years. Is that worth throwing away for someone from your past who may or may not feel the same way about you. Did you decide that ur current gf was to young for you after you meet up with your old crush? Then again you need to think that if you end your relationship with your current gf to pursue a relationship with an old crush would it work out? Because if you hurt your current gf to be with and old crush then it doesnt work out your gf may not want you back or may move on. Just some advice.
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