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writes:I recently reconnected with an old girlfriend. We are both fresh out of relationships. Since we got back in contact, she has been asking me to come and visit her. She lives across the country so we're separated by quite some distance. After quite a bit of discussion, I decided to go visit her on my vacation. That brings us current.I leave on Thursday and all week my mind has been racing. Is she expecting me to make a move? Should I make a move? Should I let sleeping dogs lie because of the history? Does she have motives for having me visit that I'm not thinking of? You name it, I'm questioning it.We didn't end things on a bad note in the past, and while I wouldn't mind a fling, I don't want to start anything because of the distance. I've been in LDR's before and they never have worked out for me. Given the history, something may happen. I also fear that if I were to try something, and it doesn't go well, it may make the rest of the trip awkward since I will be staying with her. My question to Cupid, should I just go for it? We haven't seen each other in years so what are some signs that she wants me to? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): Um, one big sign is that she is ASKING you to come. I doubt it's just to go sightseeing.
Have fun, but explain to her, maybe halfway through the vacation that you don't want a serious relationship?
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reader, raiders +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Pay attention to her signals, body language will probably answer your questions. If she does flirt and initiates any romantic or sexual advances than you should be honest and tell her you just want her to be your booty call. Be honest tell her that your are not interested in a long distance relationship let it be her call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): You will know when you get there.
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reader, missps  +, writes (6 April 2010):
if she wants to make a move she will. it will start all intimet but go along with it and relax, im not sayin lead her on coz no girl wants that but of she goes in for one you should to after all your both single so who is it gna harm? if things dont work out tho you should end it after all who are you kidding by leading you and another girl on? hope this helps xx
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