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*eadEyeDick
writes:This is kind of silly for me, but being an all to confident man, Ive recently ran into a new experience, ive found this hot interesting girl, we started hanging out as she showed up at my next door neighbors house, a freind of a friend, we have been hanging out here and there, almost everyday, I cant stop looking at her eyes, they are paralyzing, we talk, and talk, and laugh, and all of the sudden, I feel that goddamn infatuation tug coming on, I am playing the fence on this and being very careful, as Ive put a hault to how talkative I am, in fear of being cast into the "just friends" category, but I dont know if she's interested in me sexually, god I just want to have relations with her, she kissed me on the cheek when she left last night, I HAVE NEVER BEEN SHY ABOUT GOING FOR THE GOLD!! I usually just blank my mind and go in for the kiss, regardless of what the outcome will be, but it's like with her, I actually don't dare, and I cant figure out what the hell is going on with me, can anyone kick me out of pussy mode, or explain why im so terrified? I mean I really have never cared if they stop me, I never let it bother me, so why is this giving me so much hesitation? Im 32 years old, and feel more silly and afraid then I did the first time I tried to kiss a girl, it's so aggravating, I dont know what my hang up is?
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (3 April 2010):
DeadEyeDick is verified as being by the original poster of the question q1605, Im definetly seeing your point only from 2 angles, I got no problem with either, All feels alright with the world, and i have to think thats not good, but I cant stop these feelings, so I guess I just have to follow them, like an idiot, with eyes shut I'll just run straight off a cliff, I have to honestly say, this falling in love with her personality is new to me, Its like it's better, usually I just cant wait to see a chick, cause she's hot, but with this girl, I cant wait to be around her, cause she's fun, and it's a bonus she's hot, man this is to good to be true, which makes me very very nervous! nothings to good to be true! is it possible I just met the girl of my dreams by chance? I mean theres things about this girl I dont like, and they are so minimal and stupid, even they are alright, cause the things I do like are so much better, that I can deal with those! what a trip! Thanks everybody, lets see where this goes, I'll keep you all up to speed.
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (2 April 2010):
DeadEyeDick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is wierd, I was previously in an 8 year relationship, I didnt think id make it through the split emotionally, Now I got butterflies and all that from my ex, but I have so many butterflys over this girl, that I almost literally couldnt work today, physically, I could just wander around my job, I couldnt think about anything else but her, I couldnt eat lunch or breakfast, I cant sleep, I cant function, its almost nausiating because my stomach is so full of butterflys, I honestly dont believe I thought one second today about anything but her, what the hell is this, why am I feeling all these things so extremely? I thought I had felt these things before and I have, but nothing even close to this! is this normal? and how do I know the feelings on her end are this intense? and if they are not, whats the point? I have never been around a girl that made me genuinely laugh, its always been courtesy laughs, this chick says the most jaw dropping mind blowing hilarious shit ive ever heard, and the more smart ass funny remarks she makes, the more I want her, god!! I honestly can say, ive never fell in love with a personalitie, but this is far beyond anything I can imagine, why is everything going haywire? could someone please explain, just in a little bit better detail, why this is so almost disabaling? how long will it last, it's almost like its my entire body is lighter, and feels like its floating!
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reader, completelybroken +, writes (2 April 2010):
Well there u go hon! your fallen in love, you want more than to just get into her pants! you respect her, she makes you feel like lil' kid again! WOW! Role w/it cuz theres no other feeling like that in the world & it is better to have loved & lost than to never have loved at all so just ride it in slow & steady. Don't pounce her & scare her, but show signs towards intimacy & holding hands & telling her how beautiful you think she is, don't rush in for the sex take your time & work up to it & when you do reach that point......MAKE SLOW SWEET LOVE TO HER & MAKE IT BEAUTIFUL, NOT DRUNK & CHEAP, & USE CANDLELITE. YOU MAY WANT TO INVITE HER OVER FOR A NICE CANDLELITE DINNER & COOK FOR HER.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): How cute you found your soul mate. Go for it now you don't want to be put in the friend list.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2010):
 I think your problem is you've finally found THE girl. Ask her out.
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