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writes: i posted a question yesterday about my husband leaving me and telling me he is now in love with another women thanks for all the replys just to let you know we have been together 12 years and married for seven and have two children one of them only being two and five weeks before he left he told my best friend that he loved me more than anything in the world would never find anyone like me again and could not live without me and the day before he told me that he did not love me anymore he told me that he did and we still sleep together and he comes round every day to see the kids but spends the whole time with me and is always asking me what i have been up to and where have i been do you think he is just messed up and confused he is under alot of stress as we have a business that is failing home debts and a son with behavioural problems and my husbands brother has been living with us since feb
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): Your relationship should come first. It might not be a bad idea to set a move out date for the brother in law. I know your doing a good thing for him by letting him stay there but you need to take care of your family as well. I would diplomatcally let him know how much you enjoy letting him stay but let him know he can't live there forever. See what happens maybe he'll come back. I think your right that he is stressed out from everything. On the other hand of that though he should tough it out with you since this is probably very hard on you as well and if he loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I dont think that he is in love with this other woman more infactuated by the situation. With her he aint got the debts, the failing business, or the kids to worry about. He can live out his dreams with her of being free with no complicating factors like he has with you. Unfortunatly he will come down to earth with a big bang unless she has the capability to keep him cause the debtors will come calling at the door, and his kids with all thier problems will want to see thier dad. And he will want to intime see his kids lets see what sort of stress that will cause in thier relationship because so far she has had your husband to her self. Believe me it wont work after 5 weeks and if it does good luck to them but they will always wonder who will cheat first cause a relationship made from an affair always leaves you wondering if the other one will cheat like the way they got the person in the first place. If he does come knocking at your door my advise to you would be shut the door firmly in his face and ask for child support. That way he will learn that the most precious things in life like a loyal wife and family cant be taken for granted and that he missed out on a really good thing for him to have 5 weeks of fun.
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