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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Just wondering when, if under any circumstances, cheating can be forgiven? If you broke up with your boyfriend of 2 years, and a year later were considering getting back together, and then found out that he had cheated on you early into the relationship, would you consider getting back together with him still? Can someone change in a year of being apart? The man in question in 25, and I am 21. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): Once a cheater, always a cheater, don't fool yourself, find someone decent!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): Obviously it's not a healthy relationship.. Time to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Cheating a symptom that something is wrong in a relationship, unless you both get to the root of the problem and eliminate it. I'm sorry you can 'forgive' over and over again but the fact still remains that something is not right and the pattern of chaeting will most likely continue or the relationship will continue to be unhealthy....Even relationship that cheating is not involved can be unhealthy....It may also be a clear indication that you are not suited....You need to be honest with yourself and understand why the cheating happened and the likely hood that it will happen again...Some people misunderstand forgiveness..You can forgive a partner but that does not necessarily mean you wish to continue a relationship with him...There is a huge difference between forgiving and accepting/tolerating bad behaviour
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Cheating is forgiveable once,especially very early. It depends on how much deception is used. If they turn it around on you,start yelling or say you drove them,then that shows a total lack of caring. If they are sorry,then once maybe,twice forget it.
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