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writes: Ok, I already asked this question, but I'm wondering if I can get some further advice. So I'm 16 and my friend asked this guy that's been flirting and friendly with me if he liked me. He basically said I kinda do, but not enough to ask out and I don't want to keep her hanging. But he also hasn't had a date in over a year and has admitted he has a fear of getting close to anyone cuz he got hurt before. So my friend says, you should tell her if you don't like her and I'm not gonna be the one to relay the message. About 2 weeks have gone by but he hasn't said anything. He's still acting all flirty with me. Should I just keep being friendly and not push, or should I write him an email or something telling him I like him but I know he doesn't really like me and we can just be friends?(but I don't want to get stuck into just the friend role either) I really like this guy so any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (11 February 2006):
 Fact is that he just does not like you enough to have a relationship with you, the sooner you accept this and move onto another bloke the better, he is just waisting your time.
Forget him and move on, there are a lot of lovely blokes just waiting to meet you.
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reader, chrissymarie +, writes (11 February 2006):
 you shouldnt push him to like you, he has been hurt in the past and he is scared from that, just keep being friends with him for a while longer and then think about writting him and letting him know how you feel, but intil then just continue being friends, then as time goes on he will build trust in you....
i know you dont just want to keep friends with him, but is pushing him into dating you worth him sayin yes to get you off his back and then break up with you and that friendship is gone?
i dont think thats what you want just wait! and show him the trust! good luck
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