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writes:I've been on two dates with this guy, but now he wants me to go to his sister's house and visit her and his niece. Does anyone think it's too soon for me to be meeting members of his family ?. I haven't met any members of his family before , and haven't spoken to them. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 any other red flags with him? It does seem a bit soon but it might be innocent...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): That's up to you, this isn't exactly a "meet the parents" scenario if his sister is roughly his/your age. It could be more of a "friend vetting" thing.
If you think it "might" be then yes it's too soon.
You could just say you like the idea but to keep it in mind for a later time that you'd rather get to know him a bit better before you get to know his friends and family.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 Should I suppose this guy is English like you, and not someone from countries where that can actually happen, like where I live?
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (28 December 2011):
 Too much too soon. If you're not in a serious, established relationship, there is no point in meeting any family members.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): Yeah, I think it's a bit soon to be honest, if you are comfortable with it then go, if not, best say now (or make a reasonable sounding excuse till you do feel comfortable with it).Maybe he's just really keen on you, mentioned it to his sis, and she wants to meet you? Just do what you feel comfy with right now, there will be plenty of other times to meet them I'm sure, if you'd prefer to wait.x
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