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writes:After my ex ended the relationship with me even though I was deeply in love with him, I can't have a normal relationship with any guy. Now it has been almost a year since I broke up with him and all the relationships I have ended very quickly. In the begining i like the gay i date and i feel that im in love with him but after a while I tell him bye bye!!!The problem that im in a relationship with several guy now at the same time and i like one of them alot but i can't leave the others coz im afraid that they are better then him and that i turn up im choosing the wrong one that i wanna be with him!!! i missed up really!!!plz plz advice me coz my head gona explode!!!!
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 ok lets just take this one at a time. first the easiest way to forget about someone is to not see them anymore, do you still see your old boyfriend? secound its a bad idea to date multiple, it can get messy. now i dont know these people and i dont know you so i cant really say wich one is best for you, but i can say that you should follow your heart. if you care about one more then the others then thats the one you should be with. or you can keep dateing them all until you figure out witch one you want but dont fall in love with all of them because you cant have all of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Please be kind to yourself and the guys you are dating. Be friends with many but not relationships, you are going to get hurt and others to. Figure out what you want in the "perfect" partner, write it down and then date people with those qualities, give yourself time to find the "mr right" do not rush into relationships. You seem confused and not sure at this stage, thus I sincerely suggest you take stock of what you want before committing to anybody. Clear your head and emotions and just be friends for a while. Good luck in finding that special person, you will know when you have discovered him!
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reader, Gio  +, writes (6 June 2008):
Sounds like you are trying by all means to find someone to replace your ex? Give yourself some time to get to know new people, as friends and not boyfriends. Don't jump from one to another, you might be hurting their feelings and you might end up being hurt too!
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