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writes:Hello, I've come here because I need your impressions on the situation. Me and my Girlfriend have been together for about 9 months. Things were so much more passionate at the beginning, lots of hugging, kissing, cuddling, she used to lean on me almost all the time. Lots of PDA. However for the past two months or so. I've been noticing she doesnt call me or text me as much, she doesn't make plans for us the way she used to do. She doesn't lean on me anymore, in fact she seems to keep me at arms length now. We used to shower together and now she locks the bathroom door so I won't come in. She used to pick up the phone after like 1 ring, now I call her and lots of times she won't pick up and she'll call me hours later. I really don't know what's going on. I don't want to think she's met someone else. I really haven't changed. I'm the same guy she fell in love with, she's the one that has changed. I calmly ask her what's wrong, and she starts getting defensive. Many people say that when someone's cheating, they send these kind of signals, because they're feeling guilty. I think 9 months is way too soon for things to get this cold. We still have sex, but not as much as we once did.
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reader, mr. Annonymous  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 i agree with them, maybe you should just let her be for a while, maybe drop hints that your taking this hard, but it sounds to me like shes loosing interest or is just stressed, good luck
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reader, The Girl in the Green Scarf  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 I will go the opposite way and say just let her be. Nothing is more annoying and drives me farther away then someone CONSTANTLY asking me what's wrong or calling me multiple times when I just need my own time. I lived with my ex for a year and I did what your doing now to him and it just pushed hi into frustration until we both just couldn't handle the pressure any more. If you're still together its not too late but my advice is start going out more and going to the gym or doing stuff you like. If its meant to be she will come around, if not, at least you'll have a new routine to keep you busy. Best of luck!
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