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Hey Everyone, I am just a girl living in a small ontario town who is just going through a fresh and reasonably sad breakup. My first longterm relationship and i ruined it with insecurities and false hopes but have used the last little while to find myself and have come out stronger then ever. Although my feeling for him havent changed, the feeling about relationships, love and myself have adapted and grown and i love to hear peoples stories and get feedback on my own because i feel like i have alot to give but also alot to learn. I appreciate all advice! Thankyou!

We need to talk but I don't want to make her uncomfortable

Q.   My GF broke up with me a couple months back. To make a long story short, we both began to be unhappy but it was because we thought the other was unhappy with us. I guess you could say it was simply a case of two people being very very close yet ...

A.   6 September 2009: Sadly, we cant MAKE anyone talk to us or FORCE anything out of them it just makes everything worse. SOmetimes, as hard as it is, we have to let go. Whats the worse that could happen if you just did your own thing and stopped worrying about her? ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend says he still cares

Q.   Hi all, please could you tell me what you think of an ex-boyfriend texting to say he still cares , and wanting to help in a sutuation involving a family member. we've been together 5 years , but split up 6 weeks ago. he was originally driving ...

A.   6 September 2009: DO you trust him? Trust what he says? If you do then believe it. Youcant just throw away years of feelings in a few weeks. But always remember just because he cares doesnt meen hes ready to give it another shot. Your situation is a mirror image to ... (read in full...)

I want to find my soulmate and not be hung up on this guy!

Q.   Hi I have recently brokem up with a guy whom I have been seeing for the past 2 years. I miss him terribly and desperately want to move on with my life. I am involved in social activities etc and I do meet other guys but the thing is there is j...

A.   6 September 2009: Well I am currently going through the exact same thing for the most part except my ex left me acouple months ago after about a year and a half and it is really hard. But if you WANT to move on and you WANT to get over this then you can. Wanting to ... (read in full...)

My ex GF is giving me mixed signals, how can I get her back?

Q.   My GF of 3.5 years broke up with me about a month ago. I still want to be together and I have been completely blindsided by the whole situation including the things that made her unhappy. She never told me anything. The list includes things like ...

A.   8 July 2009: Im in a reasonably similar situation but sometimes its better to just do your own thing and find yourself (as cliche as that sounds) then if it doesnt work out you have a plan for your life and what you want to do with or without her. My ex of the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 7 years split with me. Should I give him space?

Q.   Should I give my ex-boyfriend of 7 years his space? I was with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years now. We moved in together a year ago and everything was great, we planned our future and spent all our time together. We have never had any problems...

A.   6 July 2009: I agree with all said but added to make the space easier for you make plans EVERY night whether it be a drink witht he girls or just a movie night at home have a PLAN. The time will fly by when your busy and it will really help you get strong again. ... (read in full...)

We need to talk but I don't want to make her uncomfortable

Q.   My GF broke up with me a couple months back. To make a long story short, we both began to be unhappy but it was because we thought the other was unhappy with us. I guess you could say it was simply a case of two people being very very close yet ...

A.   6 July 2009: Hey i actually have a question for you, How long were you two together? And in these last couple months have you guys had any contact?... (read in full...)

We're back together, but I'm afraid to need him like I did before

Q.   I really love this kid and well we broke up for a little bit and those were the hardest months of my life. And now that were back together I'm extremely happy but I'm afraid to need him like I did before. And he's already told me he needs me but I ...

A.   5 July 2009: My best advice is to NOT stop doing anything YOU love to do, whether it be going for walks everyday at noon or hangin out for girls nights every friday. Make sure to always have your own agenda and fit him into it when hes willing to fit into it ... (read in full...)

Too cold, to fast...is she on her way out?

Q.   Hello, I've come here because I need your impressions on the situation. Me and my Girlfriend have been together for about 9 months. Things were so much more passionate at the beginning, lots of hugging, kissing, cuddling, she used to lean on me ...

A.   5 July 2009: I will go the opposite way and say just let her be. Nothing is more annoying and drives me farther away then someone CONSTANTLY asking me what's wrong or calling me multiple times when I just need my own time. I lived with my ex for a year and I did ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to fix my life!

Q.   i need some advice-hopefully i wont get any nasty comments but if i do so be it. i just need advice. ive recently finished with my ex-i was with him 5 years-5 years too long. in that time he has never visited my family, never called, calls once...

A.   5 July 2009: Wow i honestly feel awful for you. Hes abusing you mentally and financially and you just take it on all fours. Theres one thing to help someone out who you care about and cares about you back but its give and take. Why would you give to someone who ... (read in full...)

I have an enormous jealousy issue!

Q.   long explanation but here it goes...childhood for me was not great. parents split when i was 5. was back and forth between the 2 till 11yrs old. i watched my mother marry ten times(yes i said 10) and my father i think 3 or 4. i said that to say t...

A.   4 July 2009: Its a hard situation. Some say that all jelousy stems from somewhere, maybe your subconsious is telling you something? But i have been in a similar relationship and i ended up having my boyfriend resent me and my jelousy issues (for good reason) ... (read in full...)

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