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To keep her cut out of my life or to go back and mend it?

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Question - (17 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ngron writes:

about 9 months ago i decided to cut the girl i loved out of my life completly becuase i couldnt cope with seeing her all the time and knowing that she didnt feel the same way about me. i had hoped that this would help me forget about her and move on and i kinda did, but every now and again ill think about her and it hurts more than when i was with here, but isnt as frquent. recently ive been having dreams about her in differnt situations, and after these dreams i feel hurt almost to the point of emotional breakdown. the thing i want to know is, have a made the right decision to cut her out of my life or should i try and mend things between us?

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (19 November 2010):

muffy agony auntIn my opinion dear,you should just keep moving on.I know how you feel.I tried cutting the guy I loved outta my life and I failed.It hurts when I see him or think about him or dream about him.It will continue hurting till I cut him out completely.Your lucky and you succeded and have kept going for 9 months.Just keep going.It will still hurt for awhile but time heals all.Just remember that.I hope it all works out for you.If you need anything just lemme know.

Love and kisses,

Muffy33

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (17 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntKeep on the path you are on now, don't back track. You're trying to move forward, it's easy to second guess it when you're not over this girl. Remember why you broke it off, keep that in the back of your mind and don't look back.

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