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*rish_charmer
writes:I have been broken up with my girlfriend the last 3 months we were together 2 years and ended it because I wanted to be single sick of fighting and the jealousy and wanted to see other people.We have remained friends and still act like boyfriend and girlfriend and it seems to have brought us closer together no argueing and fighting just being really close and enjoying spending time together.The trouble is Im 21 and shes 18 , she is drop dead gorgeous and very popular and is head over heels in love with me , she got very depressed when we broke up and kissed 1 guy on a night out because she was upset , I was hurt but she promised to wait until I have found someone before she does anything else she only wants me and does no want to hurt me again.I wanted to be single because I am very young to be tied down and have not been with many girls before her the thought of been with the same girl for the rest of my life freaks me out completely , yet I love her more than anything and could see me marrying her if I was 5 or 6 years older.She does not understand why I refuse to be with her even though I love her and we are getting on better than ever I just dont know what to do I could see us getting back together in a few years when I have had my fun and played the field and been more promiscuos but she could be with someone else the what am I going to do please help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Well Im 20 and I just broke up with my fiance about 3 months ago we were together almost 2 years. I still love him and what not, but I am feeling the same way you are...too young to be tied down, and he nor I played the dating field and had fun....he hasn't found anyone and I have. I don't know where my life is going nor his, but I will tell you this...If it is meant to be then destiny will bring you two back together. I told him the same thing, because he really wants to be with me and is feeling lonely. Let her have fun. Be her friend no matter what. Try to have fun...go out meet new people and just be you. Don't let the lonliness bring you down. Remember you have to be big headed. Think lots about yourself. Know that you look good. Don't get yourself all worked up and depressed.
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