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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my bf have been dating for some time, and we aren't sexually active...Well, I guess to some people we are... (Stopped at 3rd base)I'm perfectly comfortable with that kind of stuff. I enjoy it, and me and him both get pleasure from it.Only problem is, since I was raised on christian values, and I believe in no sex before marriage, I still cant bring myself to actually TALK about the things we do, or talk dirty to him, and it's driving me crazy!I know he's the one and everything, and I"m comfortable with the stuff we do, so dont say I'm not ready or he's doesn't make me feel the right way or something.Just tell me how to get better at that kind of stuff, please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2011): (I'm the OP)
Mostly things we do, and things I'd like us to do.
That's most important.
Probably once I get that done, I can have a better time with talking dirty, lol.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 November 2011):
 Well do you want to talk about the things you do with him (which is important) or do you want to talk dirty and get him all worked up (which is not as important)
they are two different things.
if you can't TALK about the intimate things you DO with him perhaps writing them down and letting him read it will open those gates.
as for talking dirty... I'm not good at it either so I can't help you there....
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