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*hris!
writes:Hey everyone, I guess you can see from the title, the subject of sex has come up between us, I'm a virgin, she's not, though we both know about each other.I'm kinda worried though that I won't be able to satisfy her 'cause my penis isn't exactly well endowed, nor do I have any real experience with the whole sex thing. If you must know, my penis stands at 4.5 inches long and 4 inches in girth while erectI've heard the whole "size doesn't matter, it's how you use it" deal, but truthfully, I'm sure it matters (to some extent) and like I wrote, I really dunno how to use it!A lot of the sex "techniques" I've read/watched have always had a average-large sized penis as the example and I'm doubtful that I can replicate that. I've read of using my tongue and fingers, but I'm not really sure how to use 'em right. I don't wanna end up hurting her or something. :xSo do any of you guys and gals here have any great tips, techniques, advice, and personal experiences you can share with me? Thanks in advance!I don't want her to feel disappointed with me. =(
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reader, Chris! +, writes (4 March 2010):
Chris! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks much everyone!
I think I did okay.
=)
Thanks again, and any more advice is gladly appreciated!
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reader, Chris! +, writes (24 February 2010):
Chris! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm already a bit fat overall, lol.
Thanks though. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): be nice to her, bring her flowers, chocolates, cut your nails, keep yourself clean and nice smelling.. you are young.. you have good number of years to grow.. eat healthy diet.. eating cheese will make you grow fat overall not just those parts. make her feel special and comfortable. slowly undress and kiss her all over. women love foreplay. most women like clitoral orgasm over vaginal sex. lubricate her and be gentle with fingers. she will guide you. if using lubricant, don't lick her. check some sites to give her orgasm using fingers. don't be forceful. ask her if she wants fast or slow. nobody gets it right at first time. just don't feel tensed everything will be alright. wear a condom. don't try anything kinky for the first time unless she leads you.. remember that not all men can give women orgasm. some don't even know where the clit is... point is, don't worry too much and go with the flow..
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reader, Chris! +, writes (22 February 2010):
Chris! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone. =)
Any more tips are gladly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): size really isn't the problem. It's more of a societal thing to obsess over penis size. I'd suggest paying a lot more attention to foreplay. Loads and loads and LOADS of kissing, gentle petting, gentle rubbing and gentle fondling through clothes. Gently stimulate her clit. Going down on a girl is very very simple, just lick her clit till she gets close, use combination of tongue and fingers to rub/lick her clit. And when she gets close finish her off with your penis.
Trust me, she won't care about your size if you spend a long time building up to sex with forepay and mainly focusing on foreplay!!
Your size is great, it would be easier for her to give you a blowjob without much problem. And G-spot is just 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina. Mostly it's only the opening or the g-spot that's more sensitive and gives a woman pleasure during sex, as well as the vaginal walls. That means that yes you will be able to pleasure her. Just remember.. A LOT OF FOREPLAY!! Get her somewhat close and then go for gold! This technic is especially good for first time sex because you might not be able to last for long.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (19 February 2010):
It REALLY doesn't have as much to do with size as you may think. SHE might want someone smaller. You never know. I know some women who've told me that they stopped dating certain guys... just because they were too large. Sounds like you might be a little short (for the time being) but girth might make up for it... especially if you develop a technique. The IMPORTANT part... is to learn/figure out what makes HER feel good... and do 'that thing' to her.
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