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Three weeks of texting and calling and getting to know him wasted! Why do they do this?

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Question - (28 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , *inasworld writes:

hi..everyone...

met a guy from a dating site..

i have been texting a calling a guy for the last 3 weeks... he has been texting and calling me back...i was due to meet him but he said a family crisis had arisen and he couldnt meet up...

when i text him his moby is always switched off... so his mess does not always go to him straight away...and it could be hrs before the mess is delivered to his phone...

the last 2 weeks he has been busy with work and a stag weekend has been in the way of meeting...

so we finally set a date for meeting..and as usual sent him a mess..and his moby was switched off.. but he eventually rec the mess... but no answer back... i even left a phone mess..no answer back! and left a mess on the dating site...he has read this..but no answer back!..

i can persume he dosent want to meet..and was only texting and calling me for something to do or for his ego to be boosted!

why do guys do this?

i felt i have wasted 3 weeks texting and calling him and getting to know him ..but not actually met the guy...

it is a disapointment... should i move on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010):

I think you had better concentrate more on how youre life is so empty, that you would get attached to someone off a dating site,who you believe is probably married. Forget meeting someone. In the state of mind youre in,you are gullable and ready to be used.

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A female reader, tinasworld United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2010):

tinasworld is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank u all for your responces.... i kinda of knew he is married or attached..but when you text someone sooo much you kinda of get attached... silly me... i will move on..thank u x

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2010):

AuntyEm agony auntWhat a cowardly bloke!!! Doesn't it make you mad when that happens!

I agree with Older sister...keep the contact brief before you meet, don't invest too much expectation or emotion up front, until you know the bloke is genuine.

It wasn't your fault he treated you like this, he has probably done it to countless women...consider yourself saved from a lot of mucking about!!

Hold your head up darling and move on to better things.

Hugs xxx

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou have no choice BUT to move on. The guy was probably married anyway.

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