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writes: I thought i was really in love with this 1 boy when i had a boy friend but my boyfrind finished me today and it made me realise how much i actually loved my boyfriend what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, vixie +, writes (27 April 2006):
vixie is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all your help
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 April 2006):
 You need to figure out why you seem to always want (love) what you don't have.
What you have in laymen terms is a cheating heart. In actual terms you are trying to fill a void that never seems to get filled so your always looking for that next fix. Most women who have this problem with dating have unresolved issues with their father, but some it is other areas of their life.
Some people can stop this cycle themselves but others need help. To start the process you stop dating, stop shopping, stop trying to fill the void. Find the void and resolve it. Start each day reminding yourself that your happy with what you have, and your happy with who you are.
As hard as this is too hear don't you think both boys deserve better then what you have to offer them right now?
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reader, bridget +, writes (27 April 2006):
 Hey there vixie,
You should really talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that you want to try again... Maybe on a friendship basis...
Explain to him that you are sorry for not giving him the full attention and that you are really sorry for not being there..
He might still want to be friends and thats all but if you have tried this motive you will then know it is not meant to be and you can mthen move on...
Best wishes and Good Luck
Jacqueline
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