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writes: From my part, it was the greatest love of my life.From the minute i set eyes on him.. [ i was 14], i love him. Now eighteen, four years later, my feelings havnt gone away. We've been broken up for three years, but we always someone how find eachother for a while but loose eachother once again. Ive always felt that he was my soulmate, that he was the only person i ever wanted to wake up with. Yes ive had other boyfriends besides him, but never have a had stronger feelings for anyone but him. Ive lived in my hometown m entire life, so i never felt a rush to see him, i always thought in the end it would be me and him. But my dreams and ambitions are too small for the town i live in. Im moving to New york for college and to pursue a career in the music Buiness. So i find myself thinking, what about him? I know this move, will seperate us forever. And i will never see him again, theres no doubt in my mind, hes a small town boy, that didnt finish highschool and has no plan for the future. I know me moving will put to end my dreams about being with him, marrying him ect. I know we are meant to be together, But I feel like i most do whats best for me. So my friends arranged a farewell party for me, and invited him. That will most likely be the last night i will ever see him, Do you think i should tell him how i feeel? Not that it would change anything but i feel like he should know. I just wanted to tell him that i care so much, and really do love him. Thats all. Do you think i should let it go? will I look stupid? please help?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Tell him how you feel and see if he wants to be with you. If he cares about you, he will find the way to stay in touch. And so will you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 May 2010):
If he is single, you need to know 'what if'. You'll kick yourself if you don't say something now. If he's not single, then it's too late.
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