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36-40,
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writes:2 weeks ago I started a really intensive uni course and due to my exhaustion I just don't feel like having sex. It's like I've got no sexual energy. My boyfriend misses having sex but what can I do? I've found in the past that having sex when I don't feel like it is just painful, so I don't want to do it unless I feel like it.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (21 September 2008):
I know how hard school can be and trying to balance a healthy relationship is hard too. I am in my second year of school and have been with my fiance for 4 years. What I do at the end of the day is have him give me a back and foot massage. It helps to relax my body and make me feel close to him. That usually gets me in the mood because I love to be pampered when I have been gone all day. That should really help.
Or you can try to have a date night. One night a week that you could set aside to go out to eat or have a romantic meal in. A chance to not worry about school and just focus on you and him.
I really hope I helped!
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