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writes: hi my problem is that a lad i used to be interested in and vice versa has started chatting to me about how his girlfriend has been really pissing him off recently and that he is going to dump her and i have told him that im having problems with my boyfriend and he has said that we should dump them and get together. i dont no what to do. i love my boyfriend but im not in love with him (very cliche i no) and we have been having a few problems which have been on going for a few months which we cant seem to solve. this lad though is a bit of a flirt and im worried if i do dump my boyfriend and go out with him would he flirt with other people behind my back because thats how i first met him because he was flirting with me and my friend when he had a girlfriend.
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reader, katty +, writes (29 August 2006):
firstly i think the right thing to do would be to break things off with your current boyfriend. even if things don't work out after with this other guy its not fair to keep this lad going when you know deep down for you it's not right. give things a go with this guy and see what happens, if it doesn't work then you won't have lost anything you weren't going to loose anyway. explain to you'r boyfriend how you feel about you and him and explain that there is someone else but you felt it wasn't working anyway. i hope you can both stay friends. and i hope i've helped.
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reader, camille  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 That's the risk you take. Why not finish your current relationship, see if he does the same. Don't get straight into a relationship with him, but go out a few times. See if he's still flirting then and make a decision. I wouldn't stay where you are as it sounds like you're saying "if you think the new guy will flirt, I'll stay with my boyfriend" and that's not really an answer to this problem!
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