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writes: i am in a terrible mess, i have just engaged to the most incredible man who i love dearly, his family are really loving and supportive and i love them all to, his siter is my age and we get on really well but she recently split up with her boyfriend who she has been with for over 5 years, he has come on to me asking me for sex and sending me dirty txts, i have not agreed to sleeping with him or humoured his txts. when we were all out together the weekend were all very drunk and the guild got the better of me and i ended up telling his siter about these messages, she was hurt and confronted him and he said i had agreed to have sex with him, i didnt agree and now feel like i look like a cheap dirty liar, his sister says she is ok with me but i feel like the relationship we had is now ruined and that although i did nothing she will never truly forgive me, my partner is ok but obviously angry with her ex boyfriend, i feel like its a whole big mess and they dont believe me, how can i get them to, and how can i build the trust up with his sister again, his family mean alot to me as i would love to be part of them when we marry, but i feel like ive been made to look like a tart and a trouble maker and i hate this, please any one have any idea as to how i can takle this and convince people its not me that started this ?, i showed them the txt message confirming its him but they still refuse to believe me.much appriciated little lost girl x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): Girl, you gotta get a grip here. Yes you were right to tell them, but where you did it was wrong. It was told in temper and in a heated situ. Girlfriend, listen......... your aint gotta prove nuthin to no 1. What you've gotta undastand tho is evry1 is worked-up at the moment. Give it sum time ok? Just stop tryin so hard to make them like you and clearing yourself of blame - be4 you know it, tables could turn and they could say your bein 2 protective. Give them sometime alone, and use the space for you 2 unwind from it all. This blurk sounds a right shit, stay away from him 2.
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