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writes: I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well?We've had sex already and that makes me believe that she loves me but then again why is she still with her boyfriend. She's cryed on the phone telling me that she loves me and she always says it when we're alone but when she's with her boyfriend she is all up on him and acts as if i dont exist and its the exact opposite when she's with me. I got sick of her being with her boyfriend so i wrote her a letter that i was sick of waiting for her to break up with her boyfriend i have been waiting around a month and a half and she still hasnt broken up with her boyfriend. The message told her that if that i was sick of her and that all she probably does is lie to me about loving me. I told her not to call me unless she broke up with her boyfriend, she wants to have sex cause she's really atracted to my body, and unless she has something really important to tell me. I said that she made all of the stuff we had done and all the trouble we had gotten is worth nothing. She hasnt called me for a day going for two now and i dont know if i did the right thing. I really need some advice and some help cuz im so confused right now!!!!!!!now im just wondering if she ever did love meas much as she said she wouldPLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 I think she loves both of you she is just in love with him. I don't think the kind of relationship you have with her is what you are looking for because what makes you think that she will treat you any different than she treats him now and you WILL always wonder. You did the right thing but I don't think she is the woman you want to spend your life with. It started off the wrong way and thats the way it will end.
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reader, lboy  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 hi,i really think that thisgirlis no good for you and you were definately right todo what you did. she might have said that she loves you but don't forget love is a term that some people use to manipulate others into things like sex. if she said that she wanted to have sex with you for your body and not cos she just wanted to be with you then that is not real love. she will not have tryed to call you because she will now that what she did was wrong and she doesn't want to trouble you anymore. well i hope all this works out and that you have a happy life and that you meet someone who love you for you.good lucklboyxxx
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Well its sad but she could love you very much and STILL love her boyfriend more. She is new at this game too...and it takes a while to work out all the kinks...
If you feel she must love you to have sex....then you did the right thing.
or look at it as she gave you a gift of a few moments pleasure....accept them and now move on. Every experience is somehow beneficial down the road.
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